Tuesday, February 23, 2010

3 Wishes

The question is always asked " If a Genie in a bottle were to grant you 3 wishes, what would you wish for? " . Many will ask for health, wealth, and prosperity, others would wish for world peace, and an end to world hunger. I posed the question to myself, wondering if I were ever given the chance, what would I do? What would I wish for? Well, I think that my wishes have come true without the aide of a Genie. Don't get me wrong, having Barbara Eden blink herself into my living room would be cool, but truth is, through wonders of perfect timing, and being at the right place at the right time, I've found them... all of them. If I could ask for anything , it would be to not be in chicago any more, and to be back in New Jersey. I once said " there is nothing really to go back for in New Jersey", little did I know, that the entire reason why I should be there, found herself in a very amazing small package. Through her, I have found not only love, not only laughter, but I've found someone who proves to me that I am that good, and that amazing.. being someone who has always had self doubt, I haven't picked up on this quickly, and only in the last almost 4 months have I started to see, but without this woman, I would never have seen. You spend a lot of time away in my line of work, and there are great periods where your distraught at knowing your not home, that no matter how hard you extend your arms, you'll still come up ohhh... 783 miles short from wrapping your arms tightly around her. So you are probably asking yourself, what exactly does this have to do with 3 wishes? The shortest of answers, is I don't need them, for she has given me love, a wealth of emotions and feelings, and with her, we prosper together, as boyfriend and girlfriend, as husband and wife to be, and as eternal soul mates. Emily does things for me, be it the text messeges she send me while she's in class, to the bumper stickers on Facebook, all giving me that smile or smirk and sometimes chuckle, thinking how lucky I am to have her by my side. There are times, when it seems I can never thank her, or show her in return how much these small things mean to me, so I end this by saying "Genie, if I were ever to get 3 wishes, my wish is for Emily to know that everything she does, makes my face light up, and my heart leap from my chest, for the last 2 wishes, give one to the rent-a-cop at the galleria in WestChester, and one to the chipmunk peanut gallery at the baseball field"

Saturday, February 13, 2010

Valentine's Day

So as you all know in 12 short minutes it will be officially Valentine's Day. So some will be romantic, some will be just down right horny, others will be just crying out " Happy Single Awareness Day".. But this year, I get to say, Happy Valentines Day to the greatest love I have ever had, or ever will have in my life.. Emily
So while other guys have strategy and planning, I on the otherhand just thought, I know.. Emily Tchir, will you be my valentine?

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

No such thing as flaws, just another form of compatibility

For the last 1 year , 9 months 2 weeks and 4 days I have known this somebody who has completely changed my outlook, perspective, and my love of life, and who has brought forth these emotions, feelings and sensations for which I have never experianced. We look at ourselves, and as you look in the mirror , you see what you've been told you see, by those who have sought to harm you, to bring you down, and as a result your left behind walls, gates, and locks, to keep them out from seeing who you really are. Then when you least expect it, you find that one person, who can see past all that has been before, and can see what is to come, a once gimpy hand, finds its piece in the puzzle of our lives. To this one, she finds that flaws she once felt she had, and had no place for, are now found in him. they fit together, a glance, a slight nod, a short wink of an eye, and two people have now found that neither of them ever had flaws, just that the pieces of their lives, which at one point they thought wouldn't fit, turned out that they were looking for the other half of the puzzle to complete it. I have found the other pieces to the half of my puzzle , and I have found them with my wonderful, incredible, and extraordinary Girlfriend, and Soulmate Emily.. She is the other half of the puzzle one searches a lifetime for, and very few ever get to find. She holds my heart, my pride, my love, and together, though we still may have a few flaws, to us, we fit perfectly together, even our initials stand for what this relationship is A & E - for Always & Eternally